Hi everybody,Its me,your zhor gong again. :) Time passes quickly thats why we have the phrase"in an blink of an eye". We cannot stop time from passing by,thats a knowable fact.However,that does not mean that we cannot make full use of time itself. Recently,heard from clive that the LK group are not meeting up as much as the past le. He was wondering why is this happening. Therefore he approached me for an answer,which is a wise choice,cause i zhor gong,experience ma. Hmmm. Ok,lets start by saying, the LK members have c
ertain activities on at times,and we all do know that its impossible to ask EVERYBODY to meet up frequently. Accept that. When people grow up,they have certain targets they would wanna achieve and we cannot stop them. Bringing it down to a lower level, when clive asks you(which means anyone) to go out maybe for dinner or something,go with him. Do not ask question like "whos going ah?" then you all slowly analyze then agree. It shows that you are expecting a crowd and actually deciding if it is worth going or not. Wrong mindset. Adding on,if you are free and able to make it,go ahead,set your thinking this way, if i go,maybe other people will follow. Ting ting ting! correct mindset. :) Thats how big gathering comes about,summary in a word "Co-operation"
Let the LK bond be as tight as when you guys first started. Don't let it fall. It is of
no advantage to anyone. Guess you all would understand. :)
Haiz,talking about this breaks my heart. I was also once in a big group called Lao lok kok(LKK). We had the strongest bond in the whole world. And bringing us down will require more then anything on earth. And yet,all it took was just a fucking curry puff. It all started like this, group LKK was at a outing after a midnight movie,we stop for a snack break at a old school snack store called the "old chang kun". When we were deciding to buy the curry puffs,ah seng ordered"auntie,wo yao curry pork" ah beng scolded him,correcting him,its curry puff.They fought. All of us were brothers,we wouldn't want to spoil our relationship thats why we try to stop the fight,wrong move. As the commotion was going on,the currypuff drop onto the floor,the sardine fillings came out. Ah zai shouted"which cb ordered sardine one? pcb. lim pei only eat kan dang la fk." Ah heiong,who was a hardcore lover and loyal fan of sardine,gave him a punch. second fight started. Man power got lesser. As the chaos was in place,Ah dee started eating one of the curry puff,ah sud scolded him,asking him why did he not wait for everybody to eat first. Ah dee said"Nb la,they fight so long,i eat first la." when asked to return his unfinished curry puff,he mention something about arms-length. he too later got into a fight with ah sud. Ah hui and ah lim power. Ah hui has a fierce face. his fellow brother ah lim has attitude problems. Ah hui was looking at the curry puff because they look nice.But outsiders see him as staring at the curry puff. Ah lim approach and said politely" Li kua simi lan jiao?" no need to say,you readers know what happen next. :) The rest are more brief,can't remember much but some that happen was ,waited too long, quarrel,ah mor wipe his mouth using ah koh's shirt,ah jie asking lame stuff about curry puff asking why cannot steam curry puff and etc,ah gao went home without saying and ah yao not even knowing what was happening. It all resulted into on simple event. The Last Supper. Thats why,after going through all this,i want LK to learn from our mistakes and keep the flame of friendship burning,not the anger. Take care guys,til then. smoking off~~tarda tarda~~
Be cool,even not in the winter,be a brother. :)