Timely realization

Hi everybody,Its me,your zhor gong again. :) Time passes quickly thats why we have the phrase"in an blink of an eye". We cannot stop time from passing by,thats a knowable fact.However,that does not mean that we cannot make full use of time itself. Recently,heard from clive that the LK group are not meeting up as much as the past le. He was wondering why is this happening. Therefore he approached me for an answer,which is a wise choice,cause i zhor gong,experience ma. Hmmm. Ok,lets start by saying, the LK members have c

ertain activities on at times,and we all do know that its impossible to ask EVERYBODY to meet up frequently. Accept that. When people grow up,they have certain targets they would wanna achieve and we cannot stop them. Bringing it down to a lower level, when clive asks you(which means anyone) to go out maybe for dinner or something,go with him. Do not ask question like "whos going ah?" then you all slowly analyze then agree. It shows that you are expecting a crowd and actually deciding if it is worth going or not. Wrong mindset. Adding on,if you are free and able to make it,go ahead,set your thinking this way, if i go,maybe other people will follow. Ting ting ting! correct mindset. :) Thats how big gathering comes about,summary in a word "Co-operation"

Let the LK bond be as tight as when you guys first started. Don't let it fall. It is of

no advantage to anyone. Guess you all would understand. :)

Haiz,talking about this breaks my heart. I was also once in a big group called Lao lok kok(LKK). We had the strongest bond in the whole world. And bringing us down will require more then anything on earth. And yet,all it took was just a fucking curry puff. It all started like this, group LKK was at a outing after a midnight movie,we stop for a snack break at a old school snack store called the "old chang kun". When we were deciding to buy the curry puffs,ah seng ordered"auntie,wo yao curry pork" ah beng scolded him,correcting him,its curry puff.They fought. All of us were brothers,we wouldn't want to spoil our relationship thats why we try to stop the fight,wrong move. As the commotion was going on,the currypuff drop onto the floor,the sardine fillings came out. Ah zai shouted"which cb ordered sardine one? pcb. lim pei only eat kan dang la fk." Ah heiong,who was a hardcore lover and loyal fan of sardine,gave him a punch. second fight started. Man power got lesser. As the chaos was in place,Ah dee started eating one of the curry puff,ah sud scolded him,asking him why did he not wait for everybody to eat first. Ah dee said"Nb la,they fight so long,i eat first la." when asked to return his unfinished curry puff,he mention something about arms-length. he too later got into a fight with ah sud. Ah hui and ah lim power. Ah hui has a fierce face. his fellow brother ah lim has attitude problems. Ah hui was looking at the curry puff because they look nice.But outsiders see him as staring at the curry puff. Ah lim approach and said politely" Li kua simi lan jiao?" no need to say,you readers know what happen next. :) The rest are more brief,can't remember much but some that happen was ,waited too long, quarrel,ah mor wipe his mouth using ah koh's shirt,ah jie asking lame stuff about curry puff asking why cannot steam curry puff and etc,ah gao went home without saying and ah yao not even knowing what was happening. It all resulted into on simple event. The Last Supper. Thats why,after going through all this,i want LK to learn from our mistakes and keep the flame of friendship burning,not the anger. Take care guys,til then. smoking off~~tarda tarda~~

Be cool,even not in the winter,be a brother. :)

Love,Let it be.

Clive is a good boy,a good friend and a good man. And since he is a man,he cannot escape the fate of love. Recently,actually for a long while ago,he has this strong feeling towards a girl whom he had confessed to. Brave hor! but still,courage and confidence are not the only thing to win a girls's heart. The girl rejected him. :( :( :( I could say that he have the looks,he have the wealth,he has almost anything but success. Although he's sad and everything, he have to let it go and live on. He can't possibly just say:" Please love me,because i got money" to her right. He does know that love in this way is wrong. Guess he'll just have to refer to that beautiful quote above. :) Hmmm. Best of luck to him. :)

Today,zhor gong is going to share abit on love with you guys. :) Do not underestimate me ok. Zhor ma is a beautiful angel. She is my wife :) The secret that we lasted from the 60s til now is because of love. Romantic love.

Once,zhor ma told me she would like to visit Venice. That time,i wasn't earning much,and therefore,we took a small boat in punngol end and i navigate myself to Venice,we had a wonderful time there. Looking at all the beautiful structures, making a wish at the well,visiting places of interest, stealing food from their 7-11, to admiring the majestic night-view of st. marco square. It was perfect,loving and romantic. :)

We were sitting at the highest building balcony where we broke into,the fireworks came,i hold her in my arms and tears came flowing down her cheek,she teared beautifully. :) Although she is stubborn,making me worried at times, by running around in venice,spending my last two dollars in my pocket,kissed a fisherman,dance beside the statue and crashing into a rich man's party on the island to drink...I still love her. Because i am willing to do anything for her. (Not including the fact where i had to spend time running around in search for her,tried to get more money,punch the FxxK out of the fisherman and washing up ourselves after she throw up on herself and myself.) I want her to be safe,like how when we were running away from the police of Venice,where i push her into safety which results in me,your zhor gong being bashed up by 15 policemen. At that time,i really realise that having the boots on your face hurts like hell. Picking up the pieces,i brace myself and brought zhor ma back to our country. Love is like a boat,the two willing parties must have to two most important factors in them,which are "mutual understanding" and "Trust". and sometimes,"sacrifices". Things that you did for the other person to be happy need not be bragged upon and booast in front of other people. Like when me,zhor gong and zhor ma reach the jetty,we realise our boat was confiscated. zhor ma was worried,but i assured her saying"Its ok,lie on me and sleep,i'll bring you back safely" which after that,she slept,i put her into an abandoned woodpiece and i swim and paddle her back to singapore :)

The abandoned boat before i decorated with flower bed where zhor ma laid on.

Love everybody around you,start today :)